Flip Your Outlook

Say "I Get To"


Here’s how:

Saying "I get to" instead of "I have to" (advocate for my child at her special ed meeting, for example) is a simple way to begin shifting your mindset towards growth.

Here’s why:

Carol Dweck, a leading researcher in motivation, says that just changing your internal monologue and mindset from a judging one to a growth-oriented one will change your experience.